Look ma'am a collar

I think you could wear a necklace as your collar. Or something similar to that was what Mistress said at the beginning of the month. Just as I started my second three-month term of my contract. Which sees me continuing my service to Mistress Cassidy.

During the first three months, Mistress and I were just getting used to LDR
slave training. Due to the circumstance in my vanilla life, I was not able to
wear a conventional collar.  We tried a virtual collar with Mistress
ordering me to register with the BDSM Slave Registry. Which I have as you
can see by my registry certificate here.
 
Being a registered slave, and having a number attached to my identity did work as a virtual collar. But it lacked the physical component of a collar. The slave number is ok for my online presence. But did little to my real life point of view.

I am going to be candid. Even as I go about my day to day routine of decision-making and errands and household chores, and living in as Mistress puts it, in the mundane world. I still have my submissive feeling, about me. You could almost say I am in slave mode. Don't get me wrong I am not a pushover. I can still hold my own. But what I am about to say is a contradiction. I have an element of freedom when I'm a slave in real life. The freedom to imagine being in a situation like this photo.
  I discreetly play out this submissive nature by simply saying yes ma'am or yes sir when given a directive by someone. So when Mistress Cassidy suggested a necklace as a way to discreetly display my place as her slave. I was more than compliant.


Mistress told me she would prefer I wore a chain with large links or one that resembles a rope. In my opinion Mistress's choice of these styles was to remind me that I am in bondage, even when I am not in the scene. Mistress also offered to send pictures of what she wanted as a collar for me. I promptly asked for the samples to view. I was once reminded that I do not have the authority to question Mistress's judgment. So I wasn't about to presume that I knew what Ms. Cassidy liked in jewelry. I just knew that I would wear something to please my Owner. These photos are the ones she sent me
to see what she wanted.

  And this is Mistress's actual instructions to me. " in the one labeled chains2, second from the top in the one labeled just chains, the one labeled brass rope chain or brass drawn cable. It does not need to be precisely like one of these 3 options, but similar. "

 Armed with a direction. I turned to fateful Amazon and headed for the jewelry section to find some selections for Mistress to pick from. I like to point out that I am not one to wear jewelry. So shopping for jewelry was a different endeavor for me. I searched through many pages, and saved about ten selections. I then spent some time editing the ten down to three. I did not want to burden Mistress with too many choices. Of the three,
   this is the one she selected to be my collar. As you can see from the picture, it plainly has visible links that resemble a chain that could be used to bind a slave. So I placed the order and waited the week for it to arrive. During that time Mistress clearly pointed out that once I receive the chain and fasten it around my neck. I was to consider it locked in place. The only two exceptions were for a medical procedure, or a direct order from Mistress to
remove it. Otherwise, it stays put 24/7. The anticipation of the chain's arrival was like the build-up to Christmas Morning. So you can imagine the excitement when I opened the mailbox to find the parceled from Amazon.
                             Thankfully I was at home alone, so I tore into the package to see my new collar. I like the look of it straight away. I played with it for a while, letting it snake through my fingers, feeling the coolness of the steel on my skin. I even draped it around my neck to see what it looked like, but I did not lock it in place that day. No, I had to wait 3 more days until I went shopping, to come up with a buyable reason to tell the vanilla world why I am now wearing a necklace. I figured if I embellished the truth with a proclamation that I rewarded myself for a job well done, on losing the weight, that no one would ever question the true nature of the chain. But I know, Mistress Cassidy knows and you guys know the full truth and that's fine with me.
  It felt really nice having the chain around my neck finally. It doesn't just look good, but with the chain being my collar, it makes me feel secure in the knowledge that I am owned, and that I answer to a Mistress. LDR or otherwise. In the weeks since putting the collar on, I am reminded every morning and evening of my place as a collared slave, when I carry out Mistress's standing order of keeping myself groomed properly, and as I stare into the mirror, I see the collar shining back at me. Having the necklace, oh sorry, the collar around my neck somehow adds to my transformation into an owned slave. I will wear it proudly today and 24/7 for the next three months of my contract. And if Mistress permits it, and renews my contract for another six months, it will still be securely locked into place well into 2018. All I need to do now is to work up the nerve to purchase some self-bondage gear and schedule a Skype or phone session with Mistress.

I am contemplating buying this collar to wear along with an app-controlled device for private playtime or maybe over Skype, maybe sometime in the future. I don't know, should I? Could I get some ideas, please?
  I am still thinking of getting the iTENS app control device, I would give Mistress access to the controls so she could torment me to her content, and when not using it for play, it can still be used for pain relief, sort of an oxymoron come to think of it.

 I have an update to my last post. If you remember that Mistress has ordered me into the swimming pool. Well, I have no excuses to resist her demands now. On Friday my new trunks from Amazon arrived. The photo is the actual pair I bought. Cute eh! I will let you know how the first swim went in a future post.